ADVANCED MEN'S DEVELOPMENT · DIAGNOSTICS

Find the pattern.

Short, honest diagnostics that show you which pattern is running you before you ever set foot on a call.

The Disrespect Trigger Diagnostic

Six moments. One root. Find out which pattern fires when you feel disrespected.

For the team: 6 scenario questions, names 1 of 4 reaction patterns, self-placement ladder checked against a computed read, then CTA to video.

Trigger Mapping™

Trace any trigger, in your own words, back to where it was actually installed.

For the team: open journaling on any trigger the man names, traces it to the earliest memory, pattern reveal, self-placement ladder, then CTA to video.

The Relating Reset

Map one relationship you want to change, and find the mismatch underneath it.

For the team: journaling on one relationship, surfaces the currency mismatch and default setting, 1 to 10 score with reflection, then CTA to video.

The Boundary Reset

Trace one boundary you're not holding back to where you learned silence was safer.

For the team: journaling on one boundary, 1 to 10 charge score, pattern reveal (Justifier, Cave-In, Avoider, Silent Resenter), then CTA to video.

The Pride Release

Map one moment you needed to win, and find where being wrong first got linked to being less.

For the team: journaling on one "needing to be right" moment, charge score, pattern reveal, 4-level ladder (Righteous to Released), then CTA to video.

The Question Beneath

Trace one conversation that went sideways to the question neither of you asked out loud.

For the team: journaling on one conversation, charge score, pattern reveal (Fixer, Defender, Hinter, Mind-Reader), 4-level ladder, then CTA to video.

The Standard Split

Find out whether you're holding a real standard or hiding behind one, and where that started.

For the team: journaling on one thing held back until "perfect", charge score, forced choice (standard or safety), pattern reveal (Polisher, Waiter, All-or-Nothing, Standard-Bearer), 4-level ladder, then CTA to video.

The Control Switch

Find where you're trying to control, what control is really giving you, and where you first learned to hold it all together.

For the team: companion to the Detaching From Control call. Four steps (Expose, Meaning, Payoff, Origin) ending in a control style read and a self-placement ladder. Stops before the fix, which is ASCEND.

Borrowed Weight

Find the weight you took on from your parents, why you took it, and what you've handed away that was never theirs to hold.

For the team: companion to the Giving Back What Was Never Yours to Carry call. Four steps (What You're Carrying, Why You Took It On, Why You Gave It Away, What They Carried) ending in a role read and a self-placement ladder. Stops before the Give Back, Take Back step, which is ASCEND.