ADVANCED MEN'S DEVELOPMENT · THE PRIDE RELEASE

Being right is a status move, not a truth move.

This isn't a quiz. You'll write your own answers, in your own words, about one moment you needed to win. Four steps. Give it fifteen honest minutes.

Before we start
Who was the last person you needed to be right with?
Name them, or pick one below.
My partner
My kid
A mate
A colleague
A parent
YOUR PRIDE MAP

Here's the line, start to now.

ABOUT THAT CHARGE
BASED ON WHAT YOU WROTE
ONE MORE THING

After all that, where do you actually sit?

Not where you want to be. Where you actually are right now, with this. Pick honestly.

4Released
The pull to be right is gone. Nothing left to defend.
3Restraint
You catch it mid-sentence. You bite your tongue.
2Replay
You see the damage after. You run it back in your head.
1Righteous
You think you're protecting the truth. My way or the highway.
YOU JUST DID STEP ONE THROUGH FOUR OF THE PRIDE RELEASE.
Seeing the pattern and where you actually sit is the map. It's not the fix. Getting from Righteous or Replay to Restraint, and eventually Released, that's step five through seven, and it's not something a tool finishes alone.